Scorpio.

"Scorpios put too much feelings into things, things that matter, even things that don't matter. 

Relationships with Scorpio are always complicated, just like the person, their relationships are a series of extremes, they can even be downright moody for no apparent reason. 

Scorpios are known for their possessiveness and jealousy but on the other hand, they are extremely loyal. 

Never be fake with a Scorpio, they can see it a mile away.

Scorpios have an excellent memory and combined with an inability to let things go, they can hold a grudge against someone who did them harm forever, in fact a Scorpio rarely if never forgives and forgets. They will even go as far as get vengeance on the person. 

On the other hand, they will always remember a kind gesture forever and repay it. Any kind selfless gesture done to a Scorpio will gain trust and respect which is extremely important to them in any relationship, either romantic or not. 

The best advice is to be honest with a Scorpio friend and in return, you will gain an amazing friend you will never forget and who will be loyal to you and never make false promises.

 Their truthful and shocking sense of humor if different than that of any other zodiac sign and the Scorpio makes an amazing, powerful interesting friend that can be trusted.

Scorpios are all about control, they need to be in control at all times. To be out of control is very threatening, even dangerous to the Scorpio's psyche, when they control, they feel safe. 

Scorpios are very emotional, their emotions are intensified, both good emotions and bad. Negative emotions of jealousy and resentment are hallmarks of this turbulent astrology sign. 

On the other side, Scorpios are well known for their forceful and powerful drive to succeed and their amazing dedication. Scorpios are constantly trying to understand their emotions through finding a deeper purpose in life.

Scorpios have a fear of failure which they keep hidden extremely well, should their confrontation not be successful, or their career fail, they will simply use their adaptive skill to quickly move and and leave the bad experience behind. 

Do not ever expect them to fess up or share their tale with anyone however because this shows signs of weakness and Scorpio always wins, they are always the self-proclaimed best! 

One of the reasons they seem like they always accomplish their goals is because they set tangible short-term goals that they know they can accomplish, they know what they are capable of and this is what they go for. 

Scorpios are very weary about trusting anyone, a person needs to gain their trust and this gets built up over time and once all the 'trust tests' have been passed, Scorpio loves deeply and intensely. 

Underneath the cool exterior, energies and emotions are constantly flowing but the Scorpio deals with this be channeling this into useful activities, hobbies, relationships or a career. 

This is never apparent to the outside observer but knowing this fact explains why Scorpios are so passionate about whatever it is that they are undertaking. 

Scorpios have powerful instincts and they trust their own gut feeling which is another reason why a Scorpio seldom fails."

Scorpios in a nutshell:

Scorpio is the astrology sign of extremes and intensity. 

Scorpios are very deep, intense people, there is always more then meets the eye. They present a cool, detached and unemotional air to the world yet lying underneath is tremendous power, extreme strength, intense passion and a strong will and a persistent drive. 

Scorpios have a very penetrative mind, do not be surprised if they ask questions, they are trying to delve deeper and figure things out and survey the situation. 

They always want to know why, where and any other possible detail they can possibly know. Scorpio's are very weary of the games that other people try to play and they are very aware of it. 

Scorpios tend to dominate and control anyone that lets them, or anyone that they find weak. 

The person that a Scorpio respects and holds close to them is treated with amazing kindness, loyalty and generosity. 

On the outside, a Scorpio has great secretiveness and mystery. This magnetically draws people to them. 

They are known to be controlling and too ambitious but only because they need control for this makes them feel safe.

“有人说过，每个人一生都会遇到四个人。
第一个是你自己，第二个是你最爱的人，第三个是最爱你的人，第四个是共度一生的人。
但生活最爱开玩笑，你最爱的，往往没有选择你；最爱你的，往往又不是你最爱的；而最终跟你共度一生的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。”

Sigh.

Getting neglected.
You know I hate that the most.
But there's just always a case every now and then happening to me.

And that sucked, really really sucked.
Am I really that worthless?
Am I really just a nobody?
Am I really expecting too much?
Am I asking for too much?
Am I putting my hopes too high up for this thing called friendship?

Screw this.
You can't imagine how disappointed I was today.
And it seems like one isn't enough, but double cases to punch me straight in the face today.
Right where it hurts.


Gonna reevaluate on who is worth keeping in my life.
Guess it's true all along, quantity doesn't mean quality.
And I was wrong, really really wrong.

What sucks the most?

Is when you put someone first who puts you second.
Is when you care so much for someone and they don't even give two shits about you.


Moral of the story?
Don't ever get too attached, to anyone, or anything.
Period.

You can't imagine how precise this is 
and how much it hit me.

An honest thought.

Lesson of the day: 
Don't always give ignorant/rude replies or remark when people ask you something. 
For instance, after your hair cut and your friends asked if you just had you hair cut, stop being a douche answering them in a sarcastic manner, sometimes people just wants to be friendly or to start a conversation with you while you thought their question is very stupid. 
Appreciate their effort and say thank you when they compliment you. 
Not many people left in our society now are even willing to give you comments, not to say compliments. 
Don't make people reluctant to talk to you again the next time. 
No one will like you if you reply people in a sarcastic manner all the time.


p/s: Not directing anyone, just some thought kept inside me for quite some time already. 
I'm learning to do this too myself, so I'm sorry if I've offended anyone before and I hope that I won't encounter something like this too myself in the near future. 
  

"No one can make you happy unless you decide to be happy."

Oh hi December :)

"How many have you loved? Is your answer, one and only? 

Or is it several, all whom have shaped your life?"
  

And maybe, just maybe, you feel hope.

什么是幸福？

小时候，幸福是一件简单的事；长大了，简单是一件幸福的事。
 

reblog.

如果找到对的人, 就是一种幸运 要好好珍惜。

如果遇到错的人， 就是一种学习。 不要怪自己笨， 想好的一方面， 也是一种幸福。

爱情没有输赢， 因为人就是从中学习。

单身时， 别用“习惯一个人生活”来做借口， 摸摸自己的良心， 谁不想一次就遇到对的人呢？

很多事情就是要错了， 痛了， 下次才会更小心 。

人只活一次， 把你的人生活的更有彩色些， 你的一生看起来 才会美丽。 =）

-reblogged from Jackson.

Happiness.

     "I keep remembering one of my Guru's teachings about happiness. She says that people universally tend to think that happiness is a stroke of luck, something that will maybe descend upon you like fine weather if you're fortunate enough. But that's not how happiness works. Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestation of your own blessings. And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it, you must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it. If you don't, you will leak away your innate contentment. It's easy enough to pray when you're in distress but continuing to pray even when your crisis has passed is like a sealing process, helping your soul hold tight to its good attainments."


     "... As I focus on Diligent Joy, I also keep remembering a simple idea my friend Darcey told me once- that all the sorrow and trouble of this world is caused by unhappy people. Not only with the big global Hitler-'n'-Stalin picture, but also on the smallest personal level. Even in my own life, I can see exactly where my episodes of unhappiness have brought suffering or distress or (at the very least) inconvenience to those around me. The search for contentment is, therefore, not merely a self-preserving and self-benefiting act, but also a generous gift to the world. Clearing out all your misery gets you out of the way. You cease being an obstacle, not only to yourself but to anyone else. Only then are you free to serve and enjoy other people."

Chapter 87, pg.272-273

Eat, Pray, Love.

(thoughts of Elizabeth while riding on her bike in Bali)

  

RIP Steve Jobs.

I stumble upon this post in my friend's blog just now.

And I really do agree with him.

Especially when everyone either on facebook or twitter is making a fuss out of the news for the last few days.

Like a really really HUGE fuss about it.

I don't mean any disrespect for this man,

I mean he's Steve Jobs, the guy that put the world in our fingertips.

Even though I'm not a huge fan of apple but still I felt the grief of losing a man with such brilliant mind.

But grieving over him like he's some kind of your idol?

That's way over the line.

This is what we should think about.

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I especially agreed with this.

"One dies, million cry;

Million die, no one cries."

I do feel a bit weird and worried when Steve Jobs passed away. 
But then i have no idea what am i worrying about until this picture was posted on facebook. 
When i rethink about it, i realized no one really cares about those millions who die in hunger of poverty, instead saved all the tears for the one who just passed away the day before yesterday. 
The only question i think of when he passed away is if he's in the heaven right now? 
Some say he's a buddist and some say he's a free thinker, i dont know. 
And i think that's the problem we should be worrying about for being a christian. 
He's a great man i acknowledge that, bringing technology into the new era.
Apple too. is really attractive and nice to use i wont deny it, and I'm sad too when he passed away.
But then Jesus is the greatest man.  
We shouldn't have made Jobs an idol that replaces God's Glory, thinking like world is going to an end with his death.  
Please do remember also the ppl who dies everyday and their salvation. 
Spread the good news of Jesus around with the ppl around and make sure they'll be together with us one day in heaven.

That's my own opinion guys. 
No offence to anyone. 
So pray for that too. Goodnight and God bless

p/s: do you guys realise that most of steve jobs' picture are in black and white? haha i bet you don't. :D

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-reblogged from kie yiik 

(slightly edited) 

About a man

I was browsing through the newspaper the other day, 

when i came across this article that caught my attention. 

now i know why.

That's how reality is.

Soulmate

   "But I really love him."

   "Big deal. So you fell in love with someone. Don't you see what happened? This guy touched a place in your heart deeper than you thought you were capable of reaching, I mean you got zapped, kiddo. but that love you felt, that's just the beginning. You just got a taste of love. That's just limited little rinky-drink mortal love. Wait till you see how much more deeply you can love than that. Heck, Groceries- you have the capacity to someday love the whole world. It's your destiny. Don't laugh."

   "I'm not laughing." I was actually crying. "And please don't laugh at me now, but I think the reason it's so hard for me to get over this guy is because I seriously believed David was my soulmate."

   "He probably was. Your problem is you don't understand what that word means. People think a soulmate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soulmate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soulmate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soulmate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soulmates, they come into your life just to reveal another later of yourself to you, and then they leave. And thank God for it. Your problem is, you just can't let this one go. It's over, Groceries. David's purpose was to shake you up, drive you out of that marriage that you needed to leave, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light could get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you had to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master and beat it. That was his job, and he did great, but now it's over. Problem is, you can't accept that this relationship had a real short shelf life. You're like a dog at the dump, baby- you're just lickin' at an empty tin can, trying to get more nutrition out of it. And if you're not careful, that can's gonna get stuck on your snout forever and make your life miserable. So drop it."

   "But I love him."

   "So love him."

   "But I miss him."

   "So miss him. Send him some love and light every time you think about him, and then drop it. You're just afraid to let go of the last bits of David because then you'll really be alone. But here's what you gotta understand, Groceries. If you clear out all that space in your mind that you're using right now to obsess about this guy, you'll have a vacuum there, an open spot- a doorway. And guess what the universe will do with that doorway? It will rush in- God will rush in- and fill you with more love than you ever dreamed. So stop using David to block that door. Let it go."

Chapter 48, pg.157-158

Eat, Pray, Love.

(conversation between Elizabeth and Richard from Texas at the Ashram, India)

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p/s: Can you actually believe if someone was to tell you this when you just broke up? 

Will you be overwhelmed too?

 

Day 95. Day 488.

-500 Days of Summer.
story of Summer and Tom.
story of us.

God listen to prayers, he always does.

God please forgive me, i've been such a wreck for the past few days.
I've constantly been controlled over by my emotions and anger.
Was exhausted and whining about everything and pouring out my anger towards people around me and get into fights that i worked so hard not to get into.
And i'm not proud of it. it's all your fault gta :(

Thank you for speaking to me today through the sermons during the service and also cell group.
I promise you i won't stay like this anymore.
I'm overwhelmed once again God.
You are faithful.


The power of willingness & God is my provider.

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Pray like it all depends on God. Live like it all depends on you. -Jaeson Ma