maybe one more haha

"Eleven Hints for Life"

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

:)

found this nice quote somewhere

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by.

So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts.

Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.

allen! have you watched this?! lol

gahhhhhh this is movie is just too awesome! just like the previous 2. everybody it's a definite must watch and you really gotta watch it for yourself to witness it's awesomeness. oh wow till now i'm still amazed by the dances in the movie.

(warning, a bit of spoiler for you guys: the robot dance in the first round(oh my goshhhh i like that dude with the sunglasses which is specialised in robot moves. you'll be so overwhelmed just looking at him dancing, especially a part when there's this 'machine gun' sound from the background song when he's vibrating his body like a freak! LOL) and then the water scene in the second round. here i like the teenage kid, Adam G.Sevani(as Moose) dancing in the water, stepping on water making water splashing around into the air all over the place wooooh. and the final round of battle- the 'neonbug' cloth (i guess if you watched the trailer you'll see the cloth they wore during the dance that were glowing so damn cool) and also the casting of 4 small CUTE lil' kids break dancing =3

and not forgetting the hot hot main dancers Rick Malambri(as Luke) and Sharni Vinson(as Natalie). shit they both are just SO HOT! ;D

anyway guess that this is all that i have to tell you. It's BFABB!! (watch the movie for yourself to know what does this word mean hiak!)

LAO DA!

wahhhhhhhh never knew that my biggest and most loyal blog fan is just around me all the time. ERNEST!! THANK YOU!! (told you i'll express my gratitude here someday) HAHAHAHA!

p/s: but please la, don't stalk me so seriously like that la xD (and DON'T you tell me 'congrats' again i tell you)

blessed Sundays

everytime it feels so good on Sunday-- Church.

at church i got the chance to meet up with a lot of my friends. lovely lovely friends hiak and i enjoy our p&w and the preaching of our dear Pastor Kevin. then after that i like our cell group time and the time we spent eating together and chatting. it feels like a big happy family gathering around again from different areas of the whole KL on this day. words really can't describe the happy feeling from within.

today after cell group my cousin brought me and some of our cg members to go shopping at one u. chatted with my da jie in church and we talked like we were just like old friends. ahahaha we chatted about ANYTHING. From her stories to my stories. Got to know her alot too, told me that what kind of boys that chased her before but got rejected, so funny then she told me that her "eye-sight" is not that high la but i still wonder why a girl like her still doesn't have a boyfriend lol she said 'shun qi zi ran' la when God want me to meet the right person then i'll meet him. i nodded slowly agreeing to what i've heard..

so then we all went for dinner at a very very famous mamak stall for nasi lemak ayam walao you should see how many ppl went there and all the plates placed on their tables are nasi lemak lol and then my cousin fetch me back home. (and omg actually wang lee hom was there at One U that night and we actually FORGOT! -_- if we've stayed there longer we could have seen him! gahhh~ TT)

i still think of you, everytime. even if the other girls are attractive. i still can't get you outta my mind. i think i'm just a little too not over you. how can you be that cruel?

found this link shared by my bro LOL

1 尊重你的选择
　　
2 在最后见面的时候不提以前的事
　　
3 也不要哭
　　
4 如果还是哭了也要微笑着
　　
5 说声谢谢，感谢你曾给的爱
　　
6 说声对不起，为自己的没用，最后还是让你选择了放弃
　　
7 把你写给我的信，送我的礼物和我们的照片好好收起
　　
8 有些答应过你的承诺还是要坚守，例如不抽烟，不喝酒，病了要吃药
　　
9 不要以任何理由给你打电话

10 当别人问起我们的时候，要说自己不对
　　
11 如果你发来信息问候的话，要说自己很好，同样问候你
　　
12 生日那天向着你所在的那片天空说生日快乐，哪怕你听不到
　　
13 如果我们有缘再偶遇的话，用微笑来代替我想说的一切
　　
14 如果永远都不会再相见的话也用微笑去面对每一天
　　
15 学会忘记，为了你，为了自己，也为了爱我的人

but i can't be fine, how can i possibly be better dear? :'(

i'll change i'll change, i'll change

１.未成熟男人会叫你猪头、亲爱的、傻瓜之类的成熟的男人会叫你宝宝。而且是心疼的。

２.未成熟男人会很用力的和你接吻，不管你是不是喜欢，是不是允许。成熟的男人会在情到浓处时闭上眼睛轻轻的吻你，让你能感受他细致的爱。

３.未成熟男人在和你打电话或夜聊时，不会太在意你是否想不想睡觉，而由自己决定是不是挂线。成熟的男人会不停的关心你是否困，是否会耽误你其它安排，然后再决定下一步。甚至自己很累只要你不想睡就会陪你。

４.未成熟男人总是问你东问你西，今天做了什么什么，和谁谁怎样，问题多的数不清，却从不自己动脑子去想想很多显而易见的问题。成熟的男人很少会问你太多问题，除非是一件他们搞不清、抓不到任何蛛丝马迹的事情。否则很少有什么可以逃出他们的分析和思维能力。

５.未成熟男人总是对你讲谁谁谁的不好，谁家又有什么事了等等各种八卦。成熟的男人很少在你面前议论谁的不好，并教会你一些道理。

６.未成熟男人会让你给他做饭洗衣敲背，偶尔为你做几道味道一般的饭菜，但会指责你的毛病。成熟的男人会很安静的只要有时间就给你做很美味的饭菜，递给你水果，洗衣收拾家务，就算你做的饭难吃也会表面幸福的全部吃掉。

７.未成熟男人会在公共场合大声笑，不顾旁人的和你闹。成熟的男人会自己做自己的事，沉稳微笑着处理各种场合。很尊重照顾你。

８.未成熟男人总是在打架时保护你，或者让你走。成熟的男人在你在旁边时不会打架，而是镇定的用智斗。

９.未成熟男人会没事拉上一大帮朋友去酒吧夜店玩，然后很HIGH的玩，和美女眉来眼去。成熟的男人总是迫不得以的被人叫去，安静的抽烟喝酒和朋友聊天。

１０.未成熟男人总是有没玩没了的问题，想要更加了解你。成熟的男人只会用心了解你。

１１.未成熟男人喜欢喝酒，没事到哪吃饭都爱开瓶酒。成熟的男人讨厌喝酒，需要喝酒的时候才会喝酒。

１２.未成熟男人抽烟大多为了消磨时间或者习惯好玩。成熟的男人抽烟大多是为了思考和使自己镇定。

１３.未成熟男人遇到困难的时候会问你怎么办。成熟的男人遇到困难的时候不会告诉你，而是自己去承受。

１４.未成熟男人喜欢昂贵华而不实的东西，追求表面的东西。成熟的男人不喜欢张扬的东西，喜欢有质量和有品味的东西。

１５.未成熟男人喜欢奢侈的生活，有时会浪费。成熟的男人不管多有钱，都会对自己很节俭，却对别人和对心爱的你很大方。

１６.未成熟男人很少回家和父母在一起，也很少关心疼爱父母。经常会做不顾父母感受的事情。成熟的男人哪怕工作再忙都会没时间抽时间回家陪家人，给家人买最好的东西。父母长病，天天陪在床前。每件事都会站在父母的角度考虑。

１７.未成熟男人会和你抢电视机遥控器。成熟的男人会陪你看你喜欢的电视节目。

１８.未成熟男人会听自己喜欢的歌曲，还会滔滔不绝的强迫你一起喜欢。成熟的男人听自己喜欢的歌，但也会了解你喜欢的歌。偶尔投其所好，总之看见你微笑他就开心。

１９．未成熟男人开车时会和你闹，拉你的手还不时的看你。成熟的男人会很认真的开车，会给你讲很多好玩的笑话还有事情，不让你和他闹。因为他珍爱生命，尤其是你的生命。

２０．未成熟男人会抱着你时说你沉，你这个小猪，让你减肥。成熟的男人喜欢背着你转，然后说你怎么这么轻，让你不需要减肥，顺其自然就好。

２１.未成熟男人会考虑半天才买下你喜欢的东西。之后还会唠叨给你买过什么。成熟的男人是只要你喜欢，就会毫不犹豫的买下。或者暗暗买下你喜欢的，给你个惊喜。他爱你，所以会努力让你快乐。

２２.未成熟男人会在过节或生日时给你开PARTY庆祝。成熟的男人会带你到一个温馨的地方给你庆祝，只有你们两个人，属于你们的小世界。

２３.未成熟男人总是到处炫耀他的女人和恋情。不管你是不是介意。成熟的男人，你在身边时他才会骄傲的扬着头。不用说，他的朋友们也会明白你们的关系。你爱他，他爱你，有时爱情就是这么简单的事。

２４．未成熟男人总是喜欢你打扮的花枝招展，生怕走在街上别人不看你，朋友亲戚不夸女朋友时尚漂亮。成熟的男人不喜欢你化妆和打扮的张扬。他们更喜欢自然简单的你。就算不化妆丑也觉你是最漂亮的。

２５.未成熟男人的爱经不住考验，缺乏的是深厚和执着。成熟的男人的爱是博大精深的，爱的不动声色，却又坚定执着。如同父爱。他视你若珍宝。

２６．未成熟男人总是在浪费时间。成熟的男人总是觉的时间不够去拼搏，只想你能幸幸福福。

２７.未成熟男人总是做出很多不负责任的事，然后想方设法逃避责任。成熟的男人总是勇敢去承担责任，并不会做出任何伤害你的事。

２８．未成熟男人遇到问题矛盾，会问你怎么办。成熟的男人会冷静地想解决的办法。

２９.未成熟男人会让你哭让你生气。成熟男人会让你笑让你舒心让你幸福。

Rock for Christ our God :D

the most awesome pastor i've ever seen in my life. check out this song by the one and only Jaeson Ma featuring Bruno Mars.

even took a photo with him at his concert just now hiak. it was the best concert i've ever went to. words can't describe how awesome he is and the passion he has for God. still, the coolest pastor i've ever seen :D

nostalgia

finally. yesterday i finished deleting the unknown friends in my facebook that bothered me for a while since then. everytime when i checked my facebook wall for the latest news feeds many of them are from someone i don't even know. but now after deleting them wah it feels so good to just look at your wall with our your KNOWN friends' news :D zz it was so tired cleaning them up you know? walao wasted two days of my afternoons ahh why must i be so naive back then to approve anyone that added me as a friend -_-

but in between it's not really that bad too. when checking on my friend list, i found back a lot of long lost friends. those that we're not in contact for some times. i got a chance to update myself of them when i viewed their profile or even sent a message. it really feels good to talk back to old friends :D

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and another thing that i did yesterday was looking through the photos in my old facebook albums. memories were flashing back into my mind that made me gasp for a while. saw old friends from secondary school. saw various scout gatherings. saw the things we all did together before. saw our preparations for spm. saw my guitar. saw my home. saw birthday parties. saw my birthday present they made for me last year. saw stayovers. saw chinese new years. saw the gatherings before i came to kl. saw many many other things that really kept me thinking and thinking and sometimes unintentionally winded up a little smile on my face.

it's not that my new friends here are not good. it's just that there were too many good memories that i've been through with you guys my old friends. and some i barely can know where are you and how are you doing now.

i miss the times we do all the things together.

i miss the times we laughed so loud that we got so awkward when people around stared at us.

i miss the times we will be talking about football and criticize the opponent's players.

i miss the times we played futsal together.

i miss the times we can see each other everyday.

i miss the times we went for all kinds of scout activities.

i miss the times when we all study together.

i miss the times i made you all laugh when i was fooling around in the class and made our teachers speechless.

i miss the times when i fool around with her everytime in class throwing her chalks, patting her head and calling her foolish nicknames.

i miss the times i reminded her of something important that she forgot to do and she'll still thank me for saving her ass despite all the bad things i did to her.

i miss the time she would tell me that she really don't know how to live without me telling her what to do.

i miss the times we were all so tensed studying for our spm but sometimes in class we can still crack up a little joke and to care for each other.

i miss you too timo, my best, best pal ever. still can't cope with not seeing you everyday and talk to you about anything like before, after all we've both been classmates since we were in primary four! haha :')
(if you're seeing this i just want you to know that i really do cherish our friendship and everything that we've been through, and everything that you've done for me since we first met and became friends. and that, you're still my best buddy despite all things, really)

and i miss.. i miss, everything back then.

friends, i miss you all. i really do :'(

a trip to ktt and a day at pavilion

this post is for haziq. it's really rare, i mean really really rare that someone will support me and my blog and asks me to post things on it. so i really really do appreciate them :)

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so last fri at last i went up to ktt. the whole aim from the beginning was because of her but i also wish to meet some of my friends especially JACKSON that really helped me a lot since we all came to the west m'sia HAHA! so after school i went back and pack for the things i need for the stay over and board my school's shutter bus to the ktm station. after that i boarded the ktm to nilai station, and from there, taxi to ktt. hiak

when i reached there i was like, wow so small? (lol no offence dude) but can you imagine that all three (the college itself, the condo the students live in and the cafeteria) were ALL in just one row of 'shophouses'? i mean just one block. no wonder the ktt-ians kept complaining xD

then jackson came to 'escort' me. we went exploring ktt as he explained to me what's the function of each building. after that we went up to his room (all his housemates went back to their home town) so we like own the whole unit. hiak

so we were thinking of how to surprise the others (fyi that time only jackson knows that i'm there) shu fei and ying ying were not at ktt that time so left yee tsin. she was taking her nap that time so i thought i can just go into her unit then wait at there for her to wake up then, surprise! LOL but then jackson told me you think too much coz boys are not allow to girls' units -_- crap.

so a change of plan to go to a place somehow called 'bintang walk'. it's an open air area where there are wooden tables and chairs for everyone to sit and eat and chat bla3. so jackson asked tsin to come down so that's how we met in ktt. (it wasn't a great surprise tho, stupid girl told me she already guessed that i'm coming ceh got touched jiu say ma, still crap so much :P) then we talked there after i passed her the dutch lady FULL CREAM milk and mars bar (her favs) that i brought along :D

then guess what ying ying came back from doing her groceries at giant after a while and joined the chat at bintang walk. and then shu fei saw us too then come over to greet me. that time she was about to go out for a DATE so after a brief talk she was gone in a car with her friends. then when we're heading back we saw haziq, also just came back from giant. told you it's small there, the only place to do groceries is at giant LOL

after that we decided to go for a walk to the hill top. jackson tsin and ying ying joined me. then ying ying went back earlier. so only three of us left when we reached the hill top. woot the scenery is very nice to tell the truth. and that's when it started to rain. OMG we're at the hill top, and there's no shelter AT ALL! so we gotta 'kiss' the rain the whole way back to ktt. haha first time walking in the rain without running for any shelter. indeed the first time, and it was with you. ha! :) zz saw too many romantic stories bout walking in the rain LOL (btw sorry la jackson, made you become a wet chicken just for me xD)

then that night after dinner we all went to bintang walk again. we lim 'milk' together, the milk that i brought for her (because her unit does not have a fridge. apuhhh lame si) so we chatted, sang songs, and took photos. after the sembayang haziq joined us too.

and so the night ends with me playing jackson's lappy (OF COZ IS FACEBOOK AGAIN) then sleep on the bed next to his.

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the next morning we went to pavilion by the adik me van (the ktt-ians always use this as their transport to go somewhere else) that morning jackson, haziq, tsin, ying ying and ying ying's 3 housemates followed. we took photo in front of the famous water fountain when we reached there. and after that the day at pavilion started.

still i gotta say. pavilion is the nicest mall i've been to since i came to kl seriously. omg when you see those extremely branded goods shop at the first and second floor your saliva just won't stop dripping. and i really like the atmosphere inside, the air cond is just fine, the surroundings are just fine too, not too loud nor quiet and it's really really a good place for shopping. :D

so we ate our lunch at nando's and we also watched 'the expendables'. it's really a awesome movie with so much 'big ka' actors inside. everyone thinks so except for jackson. haih you outta your mind ah jackson 1/5?? please regrade it la it's not that bad! ==

and then frankly speaking after that the whole day jackson haziq and tsin just accompanied me to hunt for my new shoes. (because my poor adidas superstar got torn up at the front after 3 years of wearing it wooh such a long time tho xD) and finally after exploring the WHOLE building (no joking) i bought myself a puma :D (it was very nice too i like it's tap shoelace. so that next time i won't have to bother about tying my shoelace when it drops)

we had sakae sushi for dinner and then after that they all went back in the adik me van. at dinner we talked a bit, a lot actually :) so everything that i wish for is that you won't forget what we've talked about. okay?

so i went back, alone. to my condo, to my unit. no one knows how i really feel. the feeling's different. it's when i was in my bathroom alone thinking of what really happened, that's when i got a hold of myself. maybe this is the last time. maybe it's not. i really don't know ..

gahhh what the heck but despite all that, it really feels great to be there in ktt. hehe :D wish to go again someday. one day.

last night

haha it was long since the last time i called.

i miss your voice.

found this from timo's blog

当你经历过爱与被爱,

学会了爱,

才会知道什么是你需要的,

也才会找到最适合你,

能够相处一辈子的人。。

maybe this is what it should have been

maybe it's really better this way. Maybe God wants me to learn something from this. Maybe this is what God wants it to be. We're much more happier this way. Don't fret because i believe that God is in control of all of this. It'll still be when the right time comes. i'm glad that we're happy again

加油！:)

reality

they told me this was the nicest photo that we ever took.

The only reason people hold onto memories so tight is because memories are the only things that don't change when everything else does.

如果我们真的分手

从一开始的互不熟悉，到如今的彼此了解；

从一开始浅薄的想念，到如今深深的眷恋；

从最初很在意在你面前的形象，到现在的毫无顾忌；

从当初的不知道该怎么爱你，到现在不知道该如何分离。

一路走来，经历了很多，我们也都付出了很多。


如果，

如果我们真的分手，

你会怎样？

如果我们分手了，

我一定会感到很寂寞无助，

耍性子闹脾气的时候会感到闷得慌，

电话短信MSN都不知道该发给谁。



如果我们分手了，

我一定会恨自己的自以为是，

原本总以为，

不管我们交错多少次，

总可以再找到时间地点，

重新牵起彼此的手，

可却只是自己的一厢情愿罢了。



如果我们分手了，

在一起那些痛苦的记忆会无限缩小甚至蒸发，

而幸福的回忆却只会日益膨胀，

到最后甚至忘记为什么分手，

仅仅只是想你，

想你，

想你。

如果我们分手了，

就算删掉你的手机号码，

我一定还是能倒背如流，

在夜深人静的时候红着眼眶，

慢慢按下那些键，

却始终找不到理由拨出去，

即使你淡出我的生命，

却仍然占据我的记忆。



如果我们分手了，

我会把你送给我的东西，

写给我的文字，

统统藏起来，

然后在夜深人静的时候不断拿出又放好，

想看又不敢再碰触。

如果我们分手了，

我一定还是会忍不住开你的校内、MSN，

最好的结局是看见你把关于我的都删了，

只剩空白，

最坏的结局是还有照片，

但却已经不是我的笑脸了，

于是我肯定会很恶毒的诅咒你，

凭什么你那么快就能从痛苦中走出来，

我却还要念念不忘。



如果我们分手了，

我一定还是不会删掉那些照片，

摘掉那根红绳，

因为曾经的每一次争吵都让它们来来去去，

可是这一次如果我删了，

我摘了，

它们就不再回来了。



如果我们分手了，

我不想再看见你，

因为我害怕那时的你在我的眼前，

我还是想牵牵你，

抱抱你，

亲亲你，

但是我已经没有资格了。

如果我们分手了，

我还是想和你做朋友，

这样在我想你的时候，

我可以想着还能找你，

虽然我也许并不会这么做。

如果我们分手了，

我一定会害怕出门，

因为无论到哪里，

都有我们的回忆，

背着我牵着我到处乱逛的你，

看着我流泪会陪我一起伤心的你，

陪着我发疯陪着我快乐的你，

为了说一句我爱你而不好意思犹豫半天的你，

把我纳入你的将来并为此拼命努力的你，

每一次同学聚会都会想到把我带上的你，

害怕我担心上学回家两点一线的你，

几乎把所有的零花钱都花在我身上的你，

因为给我准备了惊喜而自己开心半天的你，

即使有一大堆行李也不肯让拎一件的你，

拥挤的地铁里紧紧牵着我的手的你，

在凛冽的寒风又或者飘泊的雨中还是会等我的你，

陪我逛街不厌其烦地为我出主意选衣服的你，

每年寒暑假陪我出去旅游一次的你，

因为我乱玩，乱吃东西，胡作非为而大发雷霆的你，

每一次都被我搞得崩溃却依旧每一次都原谅我包容我来找我的 你。

遍地留下了自己的痕迹，

最后却跑掉的你。



如果，

如果，

如果我们真的分手，

我一定是不想的。



请记得，

如果我们分手了，

我还是等你的电话，

回你的短信，

在你需要我或是想见我的时候出现。

因为你是我的独家记忆，

一直，一直都在心底。

guess that this is it.

The truth is that I love you
And I need to know from you if you love me too
The truth is that I want you completely
So if you love me too
I need to know from you what the truth is.

-Charice. the truth is

3:13-3:38 :')

"..oh darling i wish you were here"

never heard any song as sweet as this. now, dedicate this song to you :)

'..because it takes two to whisper quietly.'

the emo side of me

she told me that i'm too emo sometimes and i shouldn't have shown it all out in my blog and facebook. :P i guess next time you all won't see this side of me in this blog anymore.






so i'll just have to keep that to myself, in another place, another space where i can be, the emo side of me.