"Do you ever wish you had a second chance to 

meet someone again for the first time?"
  

"How many have you loved? Is your answer, one and only? 

Or is it several, all whom have shaped your life?"
  

Everything happens for a reason.

Every bump in life makes you stronger.

And things that you might not understand now might be a blessing in disguise.


thank you.

shots.

Just sharing some of my personal favourites in the past weeks.
:)

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2nd August:
A trip to IMU & Sri Petaling pasar malam.

corridor down the library in IMU.

a scripture picture hanging on the wall.

the little racing car in my friend's car.

mouth-watering char kuey tiao @ pasar malam.

macro shot @ the fruit stall.

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11th August:
Lao Da & Amelia's birthday bash.

the candlelight set-up.

two yummilicious homemade birthday cakes.

when the light is switched off.

the cute birthday boy with his mini kit-kat ice cream.

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12th August:
Hope Revive Club's Welcoming Party for the juniors @ UCSI Block A Lobby Hall.

Shi Hao with the balloons.

Uncle balloon and the little wishing girl.

the yellow umbrella from HIMYM. haha

rain drops dripping.

camera frame. :)

selective colour- red: take 1.
 

selective colour- red: take 2.

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13th August:

Midvalley Megamall trip with Shi Hao.

Sesame Sensation @ Snowflake.

  

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I'm dedicated to what I'm passionate about. You don't try to stop me. 'Cos it'll only make me more passionate. -Shirley Boon

How can you forget someone who gave you so much to remember.
  

When I get sad I stop being sad and be AWESOME instead. True story.

-Barney, HIMYM(a really, really great sitcom! :D)

The most beautiful thing is to see the person you love smiling. And even more beautiful is, knowing that you are the reason behind it.

I'm catching a love bug. But I'm trying very hard not to :)

you're worth it dear :)

No one who has a true friend can ever lose all hope. For no one can feel totally worthless who has worth in another's eyes. :)

oya btw, the weather in kl is so nice recently. just love the soothing wind blowing everyday :)))

怎么句句都深动心悬 :)

单身的都来看看。 :)

不要说保持单身的男女没情趣，也不要说大学不谈恋爱没意思，有位名人曾说过“大学不谈恋爱，后悔四年，大学谈恋爱，后悔一辈子”, 学生时代，周围接触最多的人都年龄相仿，所以价值观都差不多，都想着将来有个好工作，有个好恋人。正因为理想差不多，所以两个人在一起会很开心，也就很容易走到了一起。至于恋爱是否会影响学习，这里就不说了，因为既有促进作用，也有消极作用，因人而异。


但是，当毕业后，由于工作的需要，或考研的需要，两人必须长时间分开。即使分开前信誓旦旦，但以后见面的机会将会非常少。不要说你会坚守爱情，在事业的压力下你若分心就无法使自己更优秀。而在你事业低谷时，那个搀扶你一把的人，往往使你心存感激，你会发现原来这个人就是你生命中最重要的人。而你原来爱的那个人，对你由爱生恨，你反而失去一个很好的朋友。


所以，现在若有人想跟你交往，估计也是看中近期的利益(两人在一块的感觉，没有那么多顾虑)而没有把眼光放远于未来的人。毕竟谈恋爱就得多多少少花钱，而钱全是父母给的生活费，你都还不会赚钱，没有自己的事业，凭什么可以乱花钱呢？从某种意义上讲，是父母在帮你谈恋爱，一点都没有靠自己的力量去追求自己的所爱。


恋人不是随意寻找的，因为在没有完全了解对方之前，对方可以为了吸引你暂时改变自己，而一旦你完全了解对方后，分手就指日可待了。所以恋爱应该是日久生情，彼此非常熟知后自然地走在一起，甚至无需表白。不要认为对方人很好就轻易妥协，人好不是爱情的全部，你们必须为爱情的将来做打算。


如果遇到一个你深爱的女孩，而你感觉她也喜欢你，大部分的人都是直接就开始交往了。这样做的后果可能就是前面所说的，最后失去一个深爱的人。你或许应该以朋友的名义关心她，在毕业后仍保持联系，然后为了她努力工作。当你在事业上有所成就后再去找她，如果此时她仍在等你，说明你没看错人。女孩，如果一个男生他随意就喜欢上妳，那么他以后也会很快就喜欢上别人的。爱情晚点来，就不会走得太早。我们并不需要靠失恋来成熟。


在学校里的爱情是无知的，在社会中的爱情可能是有目的的，只有遇到逆境仍走下去的爱情才是永恒的。爱情不是和一个最适合自己的人在一起，而是遇到一个更适合自己的人时，能够坚守自己对所爱的人作出的承诺。爱情不是两个人眼睛对视，而是两个人的眼光看着同一个方向。（这句话是谁说的..太精辟了吧！）


网上的“爱你，为你做这些事”看起来很感人，因为大部分人都不是这种爱情。爱情不是一种潮流，你要有自己的看法，在你的理想恋人未出现时，你要有毅力选择一直单身，而不是找个替代品。当你做到后，网上传的那些事，在你的爱情中是再基本不过的了。


男生，在谈恋爱时不要抱着不适合就分手的想法，一定要慎重地考虑清楚，女朋友就是你未来的老婆，结婚只不过是多一张无用的纸而已，结婚并不是为爱情加了锁，真正的爱情从来就不需要任何的束缚。一旦你选择了恋爱，就要有一种责任感，你要为你父母的儿子、你老婆的丈夫、你未来孩子的爸爸负责！


单身并没有什么不好，你一样可以关心你喜欢的人，这样可以让大众觉得你是一个很好的朋友（大爱这句话，哈哈，终于没有罪恶感了）；而恋爱中的人，关心别人则会引发醋意，从爱情观说也是对爱情不够忠诚，但不关心别人则又失去很多友谊，一旦你分手了，就赔了夫人又折兵。所以现在单身，不是说你不向往爱情，而是证明你对未来的她所存的一份痴情。


一个优秀的人单身说明这人足够优秀，一个再优秀的人随意恋爱说明这人的优秀只是表面而已。真正希望对方好的，就是默默在背后关心对方。最好的承诺，不是爱你一万年，而是根本不需要承诺。



虽然分手是另一段爱情的重新开始，但每次恋爱只有一次，一个人在恋爱中对爱情的向往是最多的，而一旦失败，刻骨铭心。

一个人的寂寞，是两个人的错。

还是原来那个我
不过撂掉几公升泪所以变瘦
对着镜子我承诺
迟早我会换这张脸应对笑容
不算什么 爱错就爱错
早点认错 早一点解脱

我寂寞寂寞就好
这时候谁都别来安慰拥抱
就让我一个人去痛到 受不了伤到快疯掉
死不了就还好
我寂寞寂寞就好
你真的不用来我回忆里微笑
我就不相信我会笨到 忘不了赖着不放掉
人本来就寂寞的
借来的都该还掉

我总会把你戒掉

还是原来那个你
是我自己做梦你有改变什么
再多的爱也没用
每个人有每个人的业障因果
会有什么 什么都没有
早点看破 才看的见以后

我寂寞寂寞就好
这时候谁都别来安慰拥抱
就让我一个人去痛到 受不了伤到快疯掉
死不了就还好
我寂寞寂寞就好
你真的不用来我回忆里微笑
我就不相信我会笨到 忘不了赖着不放掉
人本来就寂寞的
我总会把你戒掉。

寂寞时还是会想起你。

爱情如花，友情如酒，花开一阵，酒香一生。

Friends.

they are really the main reason i can get over with this. these few days it feels so nice to get to know more and more about them. they're the ones that kept me from swelling in my sorrow. had a lot of great time with them. felt happy when i'm with them too. guess that this is my new life here after all. not you my dear, sorry.

i love you all :)
you've once been my everything, but now i guess you're just the past. something left behind and gone, once and for all. these friends are now my reason to go on.

there are so many reasons to keep smiling. ♥

can i don't say ?

The sweetest part in life is to carry the memories in it, but the toughest part is to say goodbye to the person who is behind all those memories.

happy birthday ;)

到不了的地方叫远方
回不去的地方叫家乡
爱不到的人叫回忆
不能倒流的时间叫后悔
忘不了的伤痛是因为依然我爱你
你 现在会在哪里

guess what, another quote from our famous, one and only, LIM YI da jie! XD

EMO SI ahh you! but, i like it. lol

We don't talk anymore. And you know what the saddest part is?
We used to talk everyday.

this is why you're still my best friend up until now

this is what i saw on my fb wall today:

Dear Lawrence Kiing ت my best of best BRO,

"TIME really can heal, if you let it."[Ting QiaoQiao]
"When TIME passes, it doesn't matter anymore."[Amelia Hii]
"Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak … sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go."[Tim]
"Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't appreciate you the way you should be appreciated."[Tim]

Tim =D

Thanks man. I really appreciate it :)
now you see how hurt am i?

maybe one more haha

"Eleven Hints for Life"

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

:)

found this nice quote somewhere

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by.

So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts.

Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.