You don't find love, love finds you :)

Eventually, you’re going to find that one person that you’re going to settle down to. They’re going to make you change your bad habits and your ways. You’re going to want to spend every moment with this person, and you’d do things you never thought you would ever do for someone. It’s not called being “whipped”, it’s swallowing your pride and breaking your morals for someone you feel is truly worth it.

Reblogged from Jaymee's tumblr.
Go check it out, her shared photos are so cool! :)

[转载] 给大学生的忠告

I admit it's kinda long but it's definitely worth the read. :)

进入大学，你的所有过去对于他们来说是一张白纸，这是你最好的重新塑造自己形象的时候。

大学可能有真实的爱情，但只是可能。很多时候他们是因为别人都谈恋爱而羡慕或者别的原因而在一起。

你在大学有很多意外用钱的地方。为了你的家人和你自己的前途，永远别乱花钱。

你大学的朋友很可能就是你将来事业的一部分。他们会帮助你。但是你也应该让自己有能够帮助他们的实力，所以，你要努力。

很多事情当你再回忆时会发现其实没什么。所以，不管你当时多么生气愤怒或者别的，都告诉自己不必这样。

别说脏话，你应该知道习惯的力量。你随便的一个字或者几个字会让你在别人心中的形象大打折扣。

好好利用在公共场合说话的机会，展示或者锻炼。

别为你自己和别人下定论，这非常重要。你所看到听到的可能只是一面。

如果你发现很久了你一直是一个人去食堂吃饭或者去上自习，别在意，大学里一个人是正常的。

很多事情别人通知你了，要说谢谢，没有通知你，不要责怪，因为那些事情你其实应该自己弄清楚。

“我请你吃饭”之类的话永远不要乱说。

尊严是最重要的，但在大学里，要懂得利用这个空间锻炼自己，让自己的尊严有足够大的承受力。除了你自己，没人会为你保留它。社会是一个最喜欢打碎人的尊严的地方。

你有足够的理由佩服每天早起的人，不信的话，你去做，做到后会发现有很多人在佩服你呢。

经常给家里打个电话。

你可以有喝醉的时候，但是你要明白和真正的朋友一醉才能让伤心事休，否则，你只会是别人的谈资和笑柄。

如果你四年内很少去图书馆的话，你就等于自己浪费了一大笔的财富。

不论男人还是女人，如果在大学里还把容貌当做重要的东西而过分重视的话，可能不会吃亏，但是早晚会吃亏。

新学期如果你接新生的话，当被问到学校怎么样之类的问题时，你要记住你不但是这个学校的一分子，你更要给学弟学妹带来信心，你走过大一，你应该知道那时候对学长的信任多深。

别迷恋网络游戏。千万别。永远别。

“我爱你”。别对很多人说这句话，在大学里，希望你只对一个人说，这是尊重你爱的人，更是尊重你自己的感情。

大学里，你有足够的空间承受失败和打击，因此，你真的应该找找自信和自傲的区别，可以用一辈子的。

如果你的个性让很多人对你敬而远之，那么你的个性是失败的，个性的成功在于能吸引，而不是能排斥。

如果把上课不睡觉当做一种锻炼并且你做到了，那么，你将会很强。

别怕丢人，那是一种成功的尝试，不要笑话那些上台丢人的人。

从绝望中寻找希望，人生终将辉煌。

如果你不抽烟的话，你的精力将会比抽烟的时候好。

面对不公平的东西，不要抱怨，你不如去努力奋斗，争取你自己最合适的公平。

人生百态，不要对新的看不惯的东西生气，无所谓的，比如说恋人同居问题，这和我们很多人无关。

记住为自己设定一个远大的人生目标，并终生为之奋斗。

在大学里就开始训练自己的冷静力，这是一种能力，有大事时，能安静并能快速想出办法的人，很厉害。

英语一定要学好。

你可以看不惯一些东西，但是你应该学会接受，如果你没法改变那一切的话。

对陌生人，或者把对方当做一张白纸，或者把对方当做你的朋友，总之别当做敌人，即使你听到再多的关于他(她)的不好的传闻。

爱你的人，不管你接不接受，你都应该感谢对方。

每个星期一定要抽时间出来锻炼身体的。好处多多。

如果有人嫉妒你，你可以把他从竞争者之列删除了。怀嫉妒之心者，难成大事。

还能冲动，表明你还对生活有激情，总是冲动，表明你还不懂生活。

虽然班级的概念在大学并不明显，但是也别忘记，你的同学是你的朋友。

莫过于耿直，莫过于圆滑。外圆内方是一种视野，视野决定着境界。

永远别渴望做个谁都不得罪的人，在反对和支持声中自己做出决定才精彩。

要有魄力，即使是失败，也不要让自己的人生平庸。

喜欢一个人，就勇敢地告诉他或者她。大学是学习的地方，但是我理解爱情的力量。

应该相信一句话:没有不可能的事情！只要去做。现在我们是学生，十年后呢？

不要总想是否能成功，既然选择，便当风雨兼程。

后悔，它是一种耗费精神的情绪，后悔是比损失更大的损失，比错误更大的错误。所以不要后悔。

每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离，被惰性所消磨。

相信时间的力量，可以冲淡很多东西。

记住目光要深远。你的目光看多远你就能走多远。

永远不要瞧不起大学里的贫困生。

越大，我们就会发现对与错越是那么不明显，这不是错，这是事实，而且无法改变。

怎么都好，记住结交一个值得交的朋友。

无聊的时候，别忘记朋友。朋友无聊的时候，别忘记你是他们的朋友。

如果你没有珍惜大学这四年，你一定会抱憾终生。

Reblogged from Shi Hao.

M.I.A

Stupid trials ruin part of my happy daily lives
Didn't even have time to browse through blogs recently haha
Anyway today is the second day, 4 papers are over and only 2 are left woot! ;)

Btw today's Chemi paper 4 was just ridiculous -_____-

And this is the result of frustration studying everyday and having no life.
HAHAHAHAHA
nah i think i just miss my airplane head ;)
Not my current hairstyle though forehead hair still too long.
Just that I got bored and wax-ed it up to 'entertain' myself
XD

2 more days! And then.. supreme fun time with my classmates!
Stay tune for more infos and photos! hiak hiak ;)

Reblogged

Now I know why people who are in love are so happy.
A good time becomes a great time when there's that special someone to share with.

-Jackson :)



Reblogged from Jackson's blog

(I wanna play Tumblr lahhhhh it's so cool haha)

This is really inspiring XD

Check me out in 20 years time here.
Credits to Kie Yiik.

Cheers! ;D

Reminder to bloggers

If you're reading this and you're a blogger too, please do consider to remove your song players in your blog if you have one. It's not like I'm saying the songs are not nice, just that when you opened many tabs of different blogs and suddenly all the songs come playing and mixing up together and you have to search for the song players in every blog that you opened just to stop the song. It's really kinda annoying. And to be frank, people read your blog for your posts, not to listen to your songs. (Melodies or piano songs are still only BARELY acceptable la) If you like the song then share it in your post, or disable the autoplay in your song player. People can't really concentrate on your blog with songs playing, "smooth songs to aid in people to read your blogs?", those are just bluffs. Trust me, I was there too before, I put songs in my blog too, but then I finally realise how annoying it was thanks to my friends that say the same thing like what i just wrote too.


"Famous bloggers don't put song players in their blogs." -Jackson

Cheers.

p/s: no offence people. :)

Patrick! :))

This is just so sweeeeeeeeeeet :')

I always loved Patrick :D

Noah's Ark

Noah's Ark

Everything I need to know, I learned from Noah's Ark .

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ONE: Don't miss the boat.

TWO: Remember that we are all in the same boat!

THREE: Plan ahead. It wasn't raining when Noah built the Ark.

FOUR: Stay fit. When you're 60 years old, someone may ask you to do something really big.

FIVE: Don't listen to critics; just get on with the job that needs to be done.

SIX: Build your future on high ground.

SEVEN: For safety's sake, travel in pairs.

EIGHT: Speed isn't always an advantage. The snails were on board with the cheetahs.

NINE: When you're stressed, float awhile.

TEN: Remember, the Ark was built by amateurs; the Titanic by professionals.

ELEVEN: No matter the storm, when you are with God, there's always a rainbow waiting.

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Most people walk in and out of your life, but FRIENDS leave footprints in your heart.

:')

I'll make every second count, cause I miss you.

Trial exams are just next week and I haven't even started my revision.
I'm doomed DD:

Oya, happy birthday Sue Wen! (that's if you're seeing this HAHA :D)

I can't make a sound to somehow capture your attention. I'm staring at perfection.

:')

Turn Around
Turn Around and fix your eye in my direction
So there is a connection
I can't speak
I can't make a sound to somehow capture your attention
I'm staring at perfection
Take a look at me so you can see
How beautiful you are

You call me a stranger
You say I'm a danger
But all these thoughts are leaving you tonight
I'm broke and abandoned
You are an angel
Making all my dreams come true tonight

I'm confident
But I can't pretend I wasn't terrified to meet you
I knew you could see right through me
I saw my life flash right before my very eyes
And I knew just what we'd turn into
I was hoping that you could see
Take a look at me so you can see

She's the one that brought me to this song.

It ends tonight.

She once asked what's my ring for. I joked and told her it's a wedding ring. But no, it's a reminder that I was in love one time but became a fool of it. And it will stay on it until I found someone, someone that i know won't make me that fool again. So no more love fool. Not this time. God's still writing it. So don't be so desperate. What happened last night was a sign that she's not the one. There's a world out there for you lawrence. :)

It's really hard to suppress your own feeling that hard. And it's gonna blow one day eventually. I don't know how did i end up so pathetically like this but I'm on the edge right now. This constant confusion you're giving. I don't wanna be the only fool again. Tell me, what should I do?

this love bug is too strong for me to handle. I really wanna love, but can I?

The most beautiful thing is to see the person you love smiling. And even more beautiful is, knowing that you are the reason behind it.

I'm catching a love bug. But I'm trying very hard not to :)

No joke

April fools conversation.

Girl’s phone is ringing

Girl: Hello ?

Boy: Hey..

Girl: You okay?

Boy: Meet me at the park.

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They meet at the park.


Girl: Are you okay?

Boy: Yeah..

Girl: Are you sure..?

Boy: As a matter of fact, I’m not. I’ve been sitting here for the past two years, to only see you get hurt by jerks. I’ve always been here for you, & I’m glad to be. But when I see you cry about guys that DON’T deserve you, I wonder “I could treat you so much better.” But, no. I’m not gonna force you to have feelings for me. I just wanted to let you know, that I’ll always be here. No. Matter. What.

Girl: ...

Boy: What’s wrong?

Girl: Nothing..

Boy: Nothing will be wrong from here on out, I promise. Just answer this question.

Girl: Yes?

Boy: Will you be my girlfriend?

Girl: What? Please don’t pull an April Fools on me.

Boy: I’m not playing around, I asked you out on April 1st for a reason.

Girl: And that reason is?

Boy: To show the world that my love for you isn’t a joke.

:)

Miracles do happen, with God :)

Something really, really, really, AMAZING happened to me today.
I don't want to be too specific but anyway know that it's REALLY amazing is okay ady.
HAHA

I was sick for the past few days, my mood was unstable and I was constantly frustrated.
I can't even enjoy my weekend this week due to the crapload of maths homework. (I HATE YOU)
I even woke up late for church today ==
And I can't catch the ktm in time(it just drove off as soon as i reach) and so I had to wait for another half an hour.
During the wait, that's when I first calm myself down, and prayed.

After today, I was totally refreshed.
You see, you have to know that all of these are just tests, life can't be just as smooth as you wish it to be.
There will be tests in your life to see if you're strong enough to hold on.
To see if you have faith in Him.
To see if you can hold your anger and continue to trust in Him to lead your through all these hardships.

Because everything happens for a reason.
And only through these test, then you can learn to grow, to mature and have the strength to overcome these matters when they hit you again next time.
There's always a reason God let these things happen in your life.
It's just that you can't actually see it and you'll just have to believe, this is what we call faith. :)


p/s: still about the thing that happened today, it was really really amazing. I still can't quite believe it even until now HAHAHA! miracles do happen, with God. :D

"God's timing is different than ours. He operates on a completely different scale than we do. He may seem slow to act but, trust in His timing." -Jaeson Ma

Our God is an AWESOME God!
Cheers. :))